You had a fight with him and things are now over. Or he texted you about how he is not ready to have a relationship. Or perhaps you met with him for a coffee and decided to end it casually.
Either way, breakups suck! And if you’re now reading this with red eyes and still sobbing, then you know what I am talking about. The problem is, breakups also leave you with a sense of “I’m never going to find anyone again!”. And this is where we need to do some work.
I may not be a relationship expert, but I’ve sure been in your shoes many many times. I’ve gone through so many breakups (if you read my blog regularly, you already know that) so I know EXACTLY what your’re going through. Maybe I’m no master in relationships, but what I did learn to master is the relationship with myself.
You are now in that place when you’re thinking over and over again what you did wrong and why he didn’t love you. Let me give you the answer: you did nothing wrong and he didn’t love you because you don’t love yourself enough to make him love you in the way you deserve.
Ok, I know, this sounds crazy. Let’s say it again, together: he didn’t love you because you don’t love yourself enough to make him love you in the way you deserve. Now, I feel we need to do some work here.
Hear me out and follow these next 3 steps to get over him and move on:
- Get out of bed and wash your face! Take a shower, do some sport, eat something else than chocolate and drink a smoothie instead of the wine that kept you company ever since you broke up with him.
- Call your friends and go for a walk, go to a park or just spend some time in nature. Fresh air will give you a better sense of coming back to life and you will feel stronger.
- Sign up for my free online masterclass called The Breakup Survival where I will teach you the exact next actions that you need to take in order to move on with your life, get your self-esteem rolling and fall in love with yourself again. See you there? Get your free invite HERE.